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FIELD GUIDE / 08

Intimate images & sextortion

Do not pay. Do not keep negotiating. Save evidence and bring in a trusted adult immediately.

FOR: Anyone being pressured, threatened, or blackmailed over an intimate image

DO THIS FIRST

Take back some control.

  1. 01

    Stop responding and do not pay. Payment rarely ends the threats.

  2. 02

    Save the username, profile, threats, payment demands, and conversation details. Do not resend the intimate image to document it.

  3. 03

    Block the account after preserving the evidence and report it through the platform.

  4. 04

    Tell a trusted adult now. You deserve help regardless of how the image was created or shared.

  5. 05

    Use NCMEC’s CyberTipline to report exploitation. Use Take It Down to help limit sharing of an image taken before age 18.

FOR STUDENTS

No shame. Just the next move.

  • This is not your fault, even if you sent an image voluntarily. The threat and exploitation are the offender’s actions.
  • If you cannot tell a parent first, tell another safe adult such as a counselor, teacher, coach, relative, or police officer.
  • If you may hurt yourself, call or text 988 now. If someone is in immediate danger, call 911.

FOR PARENTS

Contain first. Debrief later.

  • Lead with safety: “You are not in trouble. We are going to handle this together.”
  • Preserve evidence without repeatedly viewing or redistributing the image.
  • Report promptly and consider support from a counselor familiar with trauma and online exploitation.

TRUSTED NEXT STOPS

Official help and reporting.

Reviewed September 24, 2026. External guidance changes; confirm time-sensitive steps on the linked official site.

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